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Agree with the premise of the post. However, re: framing of question, I can't help but wonder — when people ask for advice, are they asking because they [truly] want to solve the problem or because they want to outsource the problem solving to another person?
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Saying this because this approach requires a lot of thoughtfulness/thinking about a/the problem which I don't believe happens a lot. We mostly learn to "ask questions" not to ask "good questions." + any tips for shifting mindset?
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It's astonishing how bad people are at asking for help. In my courses I teach people how to ask for help, and even then I get emails like "X is not working, please help" and nothing more. Dude, can I see what's on your screen right now?!
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