"no drama" usually means, to me, "I do not understand how to deal with emotionally difficult situations." While technically mute on how "dramatic" the person themselves is, not knowing how to deal definitely ramps up the "drama", and risk of event approaches 1 over time.
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I do not believe in emotionally-difficult situations

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there is no emotional conflict that cannot be solved by either (i) exchanging two sentences apiece or (ii) ending a relationship
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Explanation not to be found in the thread: most men sincerely do not want (and do not have the skills) to deal with frequent emotional convulsions, manipulative behavior, acting out due to boredom...but they're also too dumb to see what mentioning that preference sounds like
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Try to imagine a man who would say something like "Test my mettle, test my will, test my devotion, test my patience. I totally know you're worth it even though we've never met. Why should I bother looking for an easier beast to wrangle? Come at me, babe."
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"I want to show that I can handle you at your X so I can deserve you at your Y"
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(this is madness)
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this is literally me
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"no drama" = I am surrounded by drama and have not yet thought deeply about the common factor
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this is also what I believe
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Wow, everyone has counterintuitive takes to my mind. What if it was phrased as "desires maturity" or something less fraught?
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Huuuh. I think that would be better. Maybe "no drama" is cliched or low status somehow? Need to think about this
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I kind of relate to "no drama" as word set, but I am not a man and not from west. I do like that weirdo cat lady complaining about gaslighting in the thread dislikes "no drama" people. I should look more into them.
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one type of drama is sufficient for the other
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" i move in contexts where i am involved in too much drama, so expect drama"
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that's the charitable interpretation. more common is "i am always surrounded by drama because i am the cause"
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me neither
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No Drama... should mean: unwanted soap opera style daily life.
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