whats up with people really trying to be friends with other people who view them as the despised outgroup like social masochism or s/t I dont mean "we disagree but were pals" but rather "you are contemptable" + "oh yes im the worst pls invite me to yr party"
hmmmmmmmm I wasn't thinking of our recent bloodbath actually, not totally sure your diagnosis easily applies in my motivating example but I don't want to be crass and actually mention the object level case
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if someone "actually wanted" to "be friends" they would quietly follow the people they find interesting, until picking up dynamics and being presented with a good opportunity to organically interact. how do you make friends?
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this is what i do irl as well as online. when i jump the gun i feel that anyone that treats me poorly is justified.
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I make friends by unapologetically forcing my way into their lives
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hey guys what's going on
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