this!
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wow, that was... nice
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Probably my favorite essay on adult social behavior :)
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can you suggest any further reading in this vein?
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The closest thing I recall was a piece by a woman who interviewed a bunch of con artists Same skill set apparently Made her feel Heard
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right?!
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oooh. hmmm yeah kindness seems more for certain intimate situations when one might be polite for an acquaintance?
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>Real politeness...[is] invisible so important. and the main reason "nice guys" aren't "real"
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i like the word "accommodating" in relation to the politeness concept. "polite" feels more rigid and reactive. accmdtng, flexible/predictive
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I occasionally have the experience of someone who has been interacting with me suddenly looking surprised and saying,"You're really polite."
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Whether that means I am not polite very often or that my form of politeness is subtle and unnoticed I leave as an exercise for the student.
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I Tweeted that before I looked at the article. This is an amusing confluence.
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