@mistressmatisse's delight re: jon snows ass recalls one of my betes noires
to boot: friendly sexual objectification's been given a bad rap
yes, its extremely bad when people in professional relationships or with unequal power are reduced to bundles of anatomy and certainly,
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lots of catcalling is done aggressively and creepily--by design! i condemn this in the strongest terms, such jerks should become better
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frankly sometimes its really gratifying to just be appreciated as a nice cut of meat
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and to appreciate such in others! jon snows ass was on display to be appreciated as a nice ass and thats great, people should enjoy it,
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and should enjoy it w i t h o u t g u i l t "jon snow your ass is so fine" is not ipso facto disrespect
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now you may say: robot, you wouldnt say that if that attention were unwelcome and i respond: ehhhhhh dont be so sure
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example of things going well: not so long ago as I was unlocking my door, a passerby--a not super attractive fellow, but friendly--said:
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"if i had your swing, id paint it red and mount it in my back yard" damn dude! n i c e im miserably straight and that was going nowhere,
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but i grinned and winked at him and we went along our respective days and i bet both felt pretty good about ourselves, i did anyway
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under other circumstances this might have been Pretty Shitty. but **these were not those other circumstances** it was a lovely exchange
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i dont have a good sense of how to square this with assholes, maybe theyre just gonna wreck it for erryone just mirin is not a crime fin
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