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my experience on paternity leave has been roughly "holy shit I cannot imagine doing this without paternity leave or alternatively without a thick community to help during the first few months" early childcare is a Lot, mentally
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this problem feels important and underattended sending kids to preschool feels like a bad solution, it is literally replacing parenting with an institution and that seems inhuman or un-human but past solutions (thick community, one worker households) seem unimplementable
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I'm really glad you're able to do that! It's basically my dream, hopefully Doug and I can get to that point soon, too

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I wish this for you as well, my friends having happy family lives is pretty much my main hope for the world
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will let you know how I manage in a couple years
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Whaddaya make
@eigenrobot What percentage of ur combined income is forgone if ur spouse doesn’t work -
idk probably like 16-30% income decrease depending but im getting a bigtech salary so it doesnt affect our day to day just how many years until retirement really
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