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    1. HappyHillespie‏ @HHillespie May 7
      Replying to @sgodofsk @eigenrobot and

      For once in my life, I'm not starting shit, but I've noticed an odd confidence among the marriage and SAHM boosters that divorce is something that happens to Other People. And that having a plan for the marriage going south is...gauche?

      3 replies 0 retweets 11 likes
    2. eigenrobot‏ @eigenrobot May 7
      Replying to @HHillespie @sgodofsk and

      i dont think theres anything incorrect about your description of the risks of being a SAHM. what im objecting to is the valorization of a career per se rather than a career pursued pragmatically

      2 replies 0 retweets 16 likes
    3. HappyHillespie‏ @HHillespie May 7
      Replying to @eigenrobot @sgodofsk and

      Sure. There's a constant - and natural - tug between private and public life. And the current way of squaring the circle is to just tell people to pick a side. No way to run a society.

      1 reply 0 retweets 8 likes
    4. Steven Godofsky‏ @sgodofsk May 7
      Replying to @HHillespie @eigenrobot and

      to give you an idea: in my erstwhile marriage my wife decided it reflected poorly on her that she was working and I was in business school, because she was "supporting" me (never mind I was paying our expenses from savings, not important, it's the appearances)

      2 replies 0 retweets 11 likes
    5. Steven Godofsky‏ @sgodofsk May 7
      Replying to @sgodofsk @HHillespie and

      she did not want me to be a stay at home dad, and did not want to be a stay at home mom, explicitly because she thought other people would perceive her as low status either way

      3 replies 0 retweets 11 likes
    6. bosco‏ @selentelechia May 7
      Replying to @sgodofsk @HHillespie and

      the mix of genuine good reasons for women to be treated like their equally competent male counterparts, and a whole bunch of other politics on the other hand, has resulted in some very weird messaging for young bright girls in particular

      1 reply 0 retweets 16 likes
    7. bosco‏ @selentelechia May 7
      Replying to @selentelechia @sgodofsk and

      "you are too smart to waste your time on childcare" "you're smart enough to compete with men in STEM!" [implicitly: so you should] "don't marry a deadbeat" [implicitly: men without jobs are deadbeats] ^ all stuff I was told by people I looked up to

      3 replies 0 retweets 19 likes
    8. Steven Godofsky‏ @sgodofsk May 7
      Replying to @selentelechia @HHillespie and

      the situation with hannah was worse than bad advice, it was that she was primarily concerned not with her own welfare and career, but how her choices would be perceived by others.

      1 reply 0 retweets 6 likes
    9. bosco‏ @selentelechia May 7
      Replying to @sgodofsk @HHillespie and

      yeah, I get that I'm saying that the pressure to think that way is a systemic brainworm for a lot of women 😬 in the end it's a matter of personal responsibility to overcome it, and she failed to do that

      2 replies 0 retweets 2 likes
    10. I somewhat disagree‏ @rugstump May 8
      Replying to @selentelechia @sgodofsk and

      Men too in my social circles. Having a stay at home wife is bad. Like it means you didn't marry well or you're a troglodyte.

      1 reply 0 retweets 2 likes
      eigenrobot‏ @eigenrobot May 8
      Replying to @rugstump @selentelechia and

      i suspect this view is quietly getting rarer among the UMC

      1:17 AM - 8 May 2021
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        1. I somewhat disagree‏ @rugstump May 12
          Replying to @eigenrobot @selentelechia and

          🤞 I hope so since I'm about to become a sahm 😬

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