I'm louder but I sorta Take Charge. I give a direction of conversation. But I like to think my loudness is more boyish and excited than simply Loud Man. So there's plenty of types!
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Replying to @BlueCollarMage @goblinodds
I've been reading other stuff in your thread, and mayhaps masc vs fem is draw around vs draw towards, or as in self vs others, respectively. Masc being people listen to you/do what you say, fem being watch what you're doing/want to get involved.
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Replying to @eigenrobot @goblinodds
If you date trans and enby people but you're solidly cis, you still think about gender a lot, just with a primarily binary lense. And still living with expectations from society you started out with.
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In other words, I think about it because I want to be a man and I want to be masculine, but I want to be some good and great and better version of it.
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Replying to @BlueCollarMage @goblinodds
i think about it a lot because (i) I see other people maybe struggling with it and so its important, (ii) I read a bunch of Crowley and now i see gender binary as a fundamental feature of everything, like fire and water or the quality of the number twenty-three
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Replying to @eigenrobot @goblinodds
It's there, and non-binary stuff is there, and in-betweens too. A little of this, a little of that. Just as many people like to be inside and outside of the binary.
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I feel like binary men are unintentionally ignored, left to figure it out for themselves. Just from the spotlight shining away from them while also the spotlight is on toxic masculinity. But not much guidance towards something positive.
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And a bit if internalized toxic masculinity. Old habits. People expecting men to figure it out for themselves. Some as a reaction to trauma, people expecting men to be trouble. I don't think the neglect is malicious.
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Replying to @BlueCollarMage @goblinodds
oh naw me either for the most part I think there's a big element of lost masculinity from absent adult men schools are a pretty deeply feminine place compared to what i imagine nearly all historically childhood/adolescent environments were not much opportunity to learn there
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but of course I would say that becausehttps://twitter.com/eigenrobot/status/967114911401652225 …
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Replying to @eigenrobot @goblinodds
I'd say schools are just a fucking void. They're lacking for everyone.
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Enby people seem to understand me the best. I don't wanna knock anybody, but I've had trans women tell me that they didn't understand a narrative because they could be imagine why someone would wanna be a guy. But that's because they were expected to be one.
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