I genuinely think that one of the most important aspects of charisma is having very little self reflection in regard to your actions. Very tricky to pull off without being a shitty person
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It’s not very little self-reflection that’s key, it’s a low amount of self-criticism in the self-reflection. Imagine self-reflection that is generally approving & affirming.
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who would wanna be such an asshole
no joking aside I think that sort of thing feels . . . hm oh idea
do YOU find those people charismatic, or just perceive that other people seem to?
there is a big element of a sort of self-assuredness that feels extremely important but I don't think it inverts lets you paper over faults uniformly, not all faults are equal maybe