Trying to think about how to explain this without being gross I think there's a general tenor about what sex means in the context of a relationship, and also to each person in it These things tend to be relationship-specific. (I don't have a general theory of this)
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The effect of selling nudes depends a lot on this dynamic and in some contexts would feel like a major violation, and in some cases be a total non-event.
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I'm not sure this actually clarifies anything
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Replying to @jcbonthedl @grin_ning
vibes where this is less likely to be an issue: sex is about Fun sex is about Being Really Good at Sex sex is about Finding Out strong contraindications: relationship is about Stability sex is about Exclusive Connection sex is about Safety
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Replying to @jcbonthedl @grin_ning
well not exactly the first three can all be pretty Intimate or Possessive if they're played right but beyond that, considerhttps://youtu.be/gXDSxgDUv-c
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Like Marrying the prom queen is pretty clear cut Fine in most circles, even Impressive. Hell yeah dude your wife is hot af What if you marry a model? Even more explicit sexualization of the career really. Often viewed as a Flex anyway. You can iterate on that.
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You can go in the opposite direction too Date a woman with a job? Doesn't wear a burqa? Total whore my Bedouin dude Context matters, internal relationship context is most important, sometimes selling nudes means one thing and sometimes maybe another
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But yes generally it's hard to suss that out and it's best not to test the line if you want things to go well.
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I would say the cases where selling nudes would be okay do exist, and they're also vanishingly rare edge cases whose existence would basically only ever occur to the chronically poly-adjacent
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