in just over a week i'm moving in with the bf -- it'll be the first time i'm living with an S.O. what sorts of things do you wish you'd known before doing this??
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Related to this, all cleaning is done either on a schedule or *by the person who notices that particular subset of dirt first*. Make your peace with this right now this very second.
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good advice maybe a convo in advance about how you both prefer to hear about things that irritate the other person and about how it's an inevitability of learning to share a space, not a personal attack on their character -- sets u up to start from an assumption of good faith
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talk about cleanliness expectations (how long can you tolerate seeing a sink full of dishes? Etc)
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Lovingly but in a way that makes it clear it's actually an issue! Blurring the lines between giving them shit and asking for change is inevitable and sometimes good when you're not actually sure, but don't do it just to soften the blow.
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lolol thank god neither of us has any debt, also in this situation he would have to be batman bc i'm the poor one
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