shit tests are good, and easy to win! holy shit people get MAD about this? dont get MAD Git Gud
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"shit tests" are OPPORTUNITIES to flex your charm "Ahaha someone is putting me in a bind! Let me break out a shit-eating grin, demonstrate that I could pass it if with flying colors if I chose, and then deliberately fail in the most dramatic way possible"
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idk do you have any thoughts on this important matter
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Replying to @eigenrobot
I don't think I ever do things I wouldn't otherwise do just to see if you "pass" unless I'm being playful :P I do pay attention to the way you react to what I say and do "shit test" seems to imply that it's not ordinary behavior but rather some kind of sub/conscious *setup*
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No you are overthinking it. This is not something a woman does consciously, we compare it to the male gaze. The woman makes a slightly unreasonable request, quite sincerely, and her attraction is calibrated based on your ability to say “no”.
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It is necessary to explain this in this way because the men who need to understand this dynamic are so autistic that they can’t understand without being told that you need to deny women their unreasonable requests as part of flirting
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sure personally though I don't tend to make unreasonable requests I would feel awful if someone felt pressured into doing something they wouldn't otherwise do and besides the things eigen does/offers spontaneously are already far outside the range of things I could *ask* for
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I guess I do make gentle, non-explicit bids to find the overlap of "things I want from him" and "things he'll do" but it's rather guess-culture-y and they still don't cross into "unreasonable" (I don't think?
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and this is distinct from a shit-test, I think "saying yes" isn't failing "saying no" isn't failing if yes: neat they can pick up on subtle cues! if no: fair enough! I didn't ask explicitly so I didn't expect to get it!
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Once you are in a relationship the shit tests mostly stop. If you meet a new girl she will shit test you relentlessly until you bed her a few times, the she will calm down and almost never do it, maybe as foreplay a bit
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