Helping people is hard. Giving advice to people is rarely effective. Much advice boils down to: here's what I'd do if I were you. The trouble is that although you may see a way out of a given predicament as you imagine yourself facing it, you are not the one in that situation.
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Replying to @eigenrobot
Thank you for sharing this. I believe listening, accepting and loving are better healers than advice. But I don't think any kind of success should be an indicator of happiness or personal value. Having your basic needs met would help ease that pressure a lot.
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Replying to @hnrqctx
Yes I think it's valuable to do this, for material needs.
Lots of needs are more abstract though, and these tend to be the more problematic ones. 
7:51 AM - 30 Nov 2019
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