fascinating the advice on this subreddit would be extremely ineffective for someone trying to date me just extraordinarily bad all aroundhttps://twitter.com/Aella_Girl/status/1188896744077049856 …
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Overall really bleak My hunch is people overgeneralize from their bad experiences and sociopaths egg them on
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main critiques 1. The Advice. Some of these things are legitimately good advice. Do respect yourself! Know what you want! Most are negging-tier garbage that, heartiste-like, sound like they fall out of too much /played in a shitty dating simpic.twitter.com/0XFfHKxu6D
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2. Like many others, they confuse tactics with strategy. Yes these things can net you short term wins. This does not translate to a strategy. Wow you defected in the stage game! Bold strategy Cotton lets see if it pays off in subsequent rounds. Because
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3. Men are not idiots Well sure plenty are But most people get wise And people get Real Tired of bullshit Especially people who have options Do you know who has options its any Chad a gal might try to bewitch with Intro Psych mummery But even THAT isnt the point really
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4. This is a terrible-ass way to establish a relationship. You want to settle down with someone? Maybe you can get to a wedding by emotional manipulation You think you can manage fifty fucking years of marriage that way? Happily?
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This is an area where PUAs actually have an edge because they're just trying to get their dicks wet Good job PUAs I guess
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in conclusion boys be safe out there women also be safe out there but further don't take advice from a dating sub that links /r/DarkTriadWomenpic.twitter.com/mGyWgegQ6a
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short term tactics for people who already frame dating as antagonistic/hostile interestingly, *some* of the advice (good and bad alike) is similar to what was implicitly passed on to me by word of mouth from older female relatives
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The generous read is that all PUA nonsense, no matter the audience, is a matter of dimly grasping for the traditional understanding that men and women are generally very different, and that requiring them to be treated the same will only leave people miserable in most cases.
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very good insight I think most advice is like that: "everyone should always carry a fire extinguisher in their car" wait, why? "well, you know how when you're road racing at 140mph at night and-" no, I do NOT know !!!!
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