There’s also always the social pressure to tell people what you think they want to hear, to build them up and make them feel positive and capable. That’s usually good! But when the theory fails to explain the results too many times, you have to ask how much to trust the theory.
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Who knows. At some point believing that everything can hurt you means that everything does, justified or not. I’ve been having the “internet dating is a tool of oppression” and “make sure you never block a woman’s path to an exit” and etc. debates so long I’ve gotten lost.
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You know how this site seems to declare some new completely innocuous thing a mortal sin every week? My entire life has been like that. Twitter seems comparatively *more normal* because here not everyone agrees with those sudden reversals, and there’s greater emotional restraint.
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What I'm trying to ask is: how would you have to change if you didn't have to be afraid of women hurting you?