wife just asked for a divorce by email L I T
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Again, none of my business, but if you're gonna fail, fail fast. Don't get hung up on stigma or whatever -- just think about how much harder it would be after a decade together.
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I think about that too idk there's something to growing together over time that appeals to me maybe the reverse was happening here but i think it was unidirectional F
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I 100% get that. And I'm so sorry that it looks like that chance is being taken away. But a clean out is better than a messy divorce after decades of buying property and having kids together. Alternative could be having that divorce and being back on the dating scene in your 40s.
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And hey, feel free to tell me to shut the fuck up. I know I'm *WAY* overstepping here. I just know a thing or two about rejection.
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No you're great and I am glad to hear your perspective :) Sigh I guess I have another ten years or so of being pretty, at my current rate It's something
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The only other really good advice I can give you is to get a good lawyer. If she hadn't already filed (implying she has a lawyer) I'd tell you to find the 3-5 best divorce lawyers and talk to all of them, if only because it might create a conflict with them & her ...
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forcing her to take (at best) the 6th best divorce attorney.
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For whatever it’s worth, I work for a family law attorney and my current assignment is another marriage of ~12 months, with nothing on the face of things which seems like The Issue. It does happen. I won’t pretend to understand why, but you aren’t alone.
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i too lack understanding oof rough work
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feel free to ignore, but whydja get married in the first place?
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we were happy and we both wanted to start a family
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that does honestly seem like bailing a little early but it doesn't matter, other people are the domain experts on their perspective takes two to keep a set of vows
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don't feel like being relieved at being out of the situation you were in, that was moribund and not doing you good, means you can't grieve or aren't grieving correctly for the situation you wanted to be in though
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You'll probably feel plenty horrible later, so don't feel bad about not rushing into the worst of the pain.
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