wife just asked for a divorce by email L I T
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feeling like you're betraying yourself by not being destroyed is a difficulty, yeah, it would suck to spend the next thirty years trying to RP being destroyed convincingly enough for yourself like, the "til death" kind of vows?
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unsure precisely, regardless, letter vs spirit we didnt actually have any Problems is maybe what gets me like both of us are basically functional adults without serious impairments and we've been married less than a year? so much time to figure each other out. a lifetime even
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Again, none of my business, but if you're gonna fail, fail fast. Don't get hung up on stigma or whatever -- just think about how much harder it would be after a decade together.
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I think about that too idk there's something to growing together over time that appeals to me maybe the reverse was happening here but i think it was unidirectional F
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I 100% get that. And I'm so sorry that it looks like that chance is being taken away. But a clean out is better than a messy divorce after decades of buying property and having kids together. Alternative could be having that divorce and being back on the dating scene in your 40s.
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And hey, feel free to tell me to shut the fuck up. I know I'm *WAY* overstepping here. I just know a thing or two about rejection.
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No you're great and I am glad to hear your perspective :) Sigh I guess I have another ten years or so of being pretty, at my current rate It's something
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The only other really good advice I can give you is to get a good lawyer. If she hadn't already filed (implying she has a lawyer) I'd tell you to find the 3-5 best divorce lawyers and talk to all of them, if only because it might create a conflict with them & her ...
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Just catching up. I know this one. We’re supposed to be hip enough to be free of all that, but these things *matter*. I’m really sorry to hear about this. And especially about the way it was presented to you. It seems cold.
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heh I am secretly extremely square thank you, friend :(
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Her showing less commitment to the vows with this impersonal notice of givinge up within the year gives you every right to feel relieved, Robot. Best to find out sooner than later when "unequally yoked". Sucks that it didn't work out ofcourse, but don't loose hope for the future.
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