demisexuality is a way of pretending that the single most praised and rewarded sexual behavior pattern in our culture is oppressed because Chad and Stacy like casual hookups
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to be fair, demisexuality makes sense as a dialectical move (read: countersignal) if you're looking at young-urban-liberal areas. consider that much praise for monogamy inherits from Christian social norms, which are flailing esp in cities...
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what I don't really understand is the appeal in continuing to promote it, when it's so unsustainable and everyone likes orgasms and novel partners.
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monogamous partners actually have more sex
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the main issue for me is that I legitimately don't like being intimate with most people, and I really really dont enjoy losing post-orgasm glow to the overwhelming desire for my partner to get the fuck out of my apartment, better to not have the sex tbqh
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diagnosis: you don't like people and only sort of like sex, which is fine, let a thousand flowers bloom, you do you
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i like sex and i am very good at it which i like more than the sex itself if were being honest, theres more to do with pride here but i want to be appreciated for the reasons that i think people should appreciate me and that is infeasible in many cases with novel partners
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Replying to @eigenrobot @palecur and
so what you do here is you hang out with a single TON of people, chitchat, allow each other's personal mythologies to permeate the background sociality, and then you chain-fuck people one by one and maybe the first one doesn't appreciate you right, but by the third or fourth...
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Replying to @AmbrosialArts @palecur and
good way to burn a social group to the ground ime
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Replying to @eigenrobot @AmbrosialArts and
only bad ones; good ones have resilient drama-management protocols and bonobo up perfectly well.
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those tend to be purpose-made groups tho and even there E N T R O P Y but for social groups
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