'Girls ignore geeks' okay then explain every single one of my dating/casual sex choices in my entire life, as well as every single one of my male friends, thanks. Also girls can be geeks themselves, it's this whole thing.https://twitter.com/SirHGray/status/955783826525081600 …
Girls ignore low-status/unattractive men in nerd/otaku fandom like elsewhere but worse. These communities have a greater proportion of such men that women reject, so dating market is more unequal, women go for the top men in the fandom.
girls do ignore a large % of geeks. #incel
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I don't get what you're saying but I bang the smartest (but still kind) guy in the room, or the one who makes me laugh, or the one who is the quietest. Bonus points if he is all three. I don't care about 'power', that's what bedroom shenanigans are for heyoooo. :D
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that's surprising actually, never heard of any girl before saying they'd go for the quietest guy. I hope I will run into someone like that one day, I am always the quietest guy in the room.
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Quietest dudes = best in bed. At least from my experience, I'm sure some people are assholes. I hope you find someone like that too. :)
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This is untrue when you realise that there's no single rating system. What is unattractive though is judging yourself unfairly and on single attributes. I would recommend diversifying your friendship and support groups and getting support
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True there's no tangible single rating system, it's a concept. But when you combine all possible factors of attractiveness, & the tastes of women on average, guys have an attractiveness rating/rank - sexual market value - that can be used to explain the dating market.
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I don't just focus on single attributes, but looking at the broad picture and how different factors interact. But there are many things where if one only thing were different, things would be so much better and I might not be incel.
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It's not like my Tinder profile is full of self-deprecation or anything, I keep the incel, loneliness etc stuff to myself. I try to put a filter on the way I present myself to women.
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Professional support is hard to get a referral for from the doctor, and could result in being involuntarily committed (likely, that actually happens to people) or police/anti-terror raids if they think I'm some Elliot Rodger type.
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Hey I understand. It sounds like there's fear there too? If you're stable "Girl Interrupted" is a pretty good watch. I am sorry that the health services don't feel approachable. If it helps, you can hide the stuff thst feels reprehensible and go at your own pace
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I had similar fears and stuff and eventually the pain of isolation was like greater than anything they could do lol. I'd like to share my path through stuff as I think it might help if you'd like to discord sometime.
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It's logical the way it feels that the world is against you. IMO it's more because of people just not understanding. I know that feeling of despair and why even try cos everything feels pointless. Your brain is trying to protect you frm the pressure and expectations you have
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