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He/Him. Trans Journo. Views expressed are representative of that Dunkin Donuts I worked in one summer.

Joined March 2009

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    1. Madeline Marsanne‏ @MadelineOnMars 11 Apr 2017

      Gender essentialism! Female socialization! Bodily autonomy! It's an aim at awareness that ends in a bloody faceplant http://nymag.com/thecut/2016/08/baby-ear-piercing.html …

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    2. Madeline Marsanne‏ @MadelineOnMars 11 Apr 2017
      Replying to @MadelineOnMars

      Yes, I know it's a piece from 2016 that randomly burst onto @NYMag's top 10, but I am weirded out by too many things.

      2 replies 0 retweets 0 likes
    3. Evan Urquhart‏ @e_urq 11 Apr 2017
      Replying to @MadelineOnMars @NYMag

      I wish I hadn't had my ears pieced at 11. I don't wear earings, haven't since high school, but the holes are a tell for having been female.

      2 replies 0 retweets 1 like
    4. Madeline Marsanne‏ @MadelineOnMars 11 Apr 2017
      Replying to @e_urq @v_urq @NYMag

      11 is hard. I imagine you were coping w. all the glorious middle school peer pressure PLUS additional pressure to perform femininity.

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    5. Evan Urquhart‏ @e_urq 11 Apr 2017
      Replying to @MadelineOnMars @NYMag

      Yeah- I tried very hard to conform to feminine expectations in pre/early teens and then again in mid twenties.

      2 replies 0 retweets 1 like
    6. Madeline Marsanne‏ @MadelineOnMars 11 Apr 2017
      Replying to @e_urq @v_urq @NYMag

      The pressure are so awful for so many queer people. My mom faught hard against gender stereotypes. I'm so grateful for how effective she was

      1 reply 0 retweets 0 likes
    7. Evan Urquhart‏ @e_urq 11 Apr 2017
      Replying to @MadelineOnMars @NYMag

      My mom willed me to be hyper girly. I was always told how girly I was, even when obvious reality was opposite. She does it to my neices now.

      2 replies 0 retweets 0 likes
    8. Evan Urquhart‏ @e_urq 11 Apr 2017
      Replying to @e_urq @NYMag

      It's very insidious. She doesn't say how they should behave, just repeats over and over how much they like pink, how feminine they are, etc.

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    9. Evan Urquhart‏ @e_urq 11 Apr 2017
      Replying to @e_urq @NYMag

      My niece likes pink, don't get me wrong. Also loves looking in the dirt for bugs and grasshoppers! She's a mix, like most kids.

      2 replies 0 retweets 1 like
    10. Madeline Marsanne‏ @MadelineOnMars 11 Apr 2017
      Replying to @e_urq @v_urq @NYMag

      What about sibs? I'm sandwiched between two brothers & wore lots of unisex clothing. Anything expensive, like winter coats, had to be navy.

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      Evan Urquhart‏ @e_urq 11 Apr 2017
      Replying to @MadelineOnMars @NYMag

      My sister and I are two years apart- she's very traditionally feminine so wasn't harmed as much by the expectation that she be so.

      9:58 AM - 11 Apr 2017
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        2. Evan Urquhart‏ @e_urq 11 Apr 2017
          Replying to @e_urq @NYMag

          My brother is ten years younger, and we've always had a close relationship. He always jokingly called me his older brother, growing up.

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        3. Madeline Marsanne‏ @MadelineOnMars 11 Apr 2017
          Replying to @e_urq @v_urq @NYMag

          Awww that's so sweet & heartwarming and perfect ❤️

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        2. Madeline Marsanne‏ @MadelineOnMars 11 Apr 2017
          Replying to @e_urq @v_urq @NYMag

          She's straight, I guess? I know so many queer femmes who had to reclaim femininity, to reject their socialization & own it for themselves.

          1 reply 0 retweets 1 like
        3. Evan Urquhart‏ @e_urq 11 Apr 2017
          Replying to @MadelineOnMars @NYMag

          Oh yes! (I have even written something on this: http://www.slate.com/blogs/outward/2015/03/12/femme_lesbians_shouldn_t_be_defined_by_their_butches.html …)

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