Evan Urquhart

I think they assume I care about trans women I must be trans, and they don't think trans men exist, so

this has been my experience also. folks tends to assume that if you're standing up for a group, you're part of said group (folks have told me I must hate white ppl bc I support BLM, fr ex.) I think they're maybe telling on themselves? They wouldn't do that so no one would?

I think another part of it- for the more TERFy, deeper in transphobes, is that they believe trans men transition to earn male privilege and therefore couldn't be facing any sort of discrimination or prejudice of our own.

Oh yeah, they hit that one hard, and there have been days I got to hear that from transphobes *and" from trans people. It's not *super* fun like I would not recommend this experience if you're a cis woman trying to escape sexism

Cis privilige is better than male privilige

I hesitate to really say that but I think they're closely related and hard to untangle and just... I can point to the things that got easier, they do exist. But the costs also do.

Right! There are legit struggles thst come with being a guy, and with being trans. We don't get to talk about them much, except amongst ourselves, but being a trans masc person *does* have its own unique struggles, and we need room to talk about BOTH parts of that identity.

Can I say I'd love to have a round table with y'all one day just to talk about our experiences??