Evan Urquhart

Well you don't have to be into vaginas as much as lesbians are. I mean, who is??

If you wouldn't take this tone about a cis woman who had her cervix, ovaries, and uterus removed for urgent health reasons, you shouldn't take it about anyone. Ask me how I know what it feels like to finger a woman who's had that procedure.

I absolutely would if that woman was trying to pressure me into having sex with her!

LMAO. Come on. If you're going to make up pretend post-op trans women who are trying to force you, personally, to have sex with them we can't possibly maintain this friendship.

Yes, that has happened to me, personally, on a number of occasions, and I have lost friends over simply saying that's fucked up. I'm supposed to just tolerate it, apparently. I'm sick of it.

I'm sorry, I lived as a butch lesbian for more than 15 yrs. I was on all the dating apps. I met my lesbian wife on Craigslist.

And I straight up don't believe you. You might have seen a few trans women's profiles, like you might see any number of profiles by women you weren't personally interested in dating, but you were not hounded off dating apps by aggressive trans women.

To say so is a lie, and an evil lie. I know it's a lie with absolute certainty bc I'm a trans man who transitioned at 38, and until then I was in your exact position.