Evan Urquhart

Like I've seen trans men lash out against trans women using these same talking points of "not feeling welcome in their own community" and be rightfully criticized for it, but because this is broadly about nb folk we just have to...let it go? Nah.

I don't think it's fair to say I wouldn't say the same thing if the lashing out was directed at trans women. That's coming from you, not me.

I'm just saying, you should probably ask yourself why you feel sympathetic who quite literally nb folk as not belonging in trans spaces and even characterizes many nb folk as "trenders"/cis people pretending to be trans, and why you think others should feel the same.

*sympathetic to someone who quite literally characterizes nb folk

Hey, I know prejudice against NB's hurts, and I'm sorry this has triggered that for you. It wasn't my intention and obviously, as I said, I don't share his views.

If we disagree on whether quite tweeting and compiling members of our community is good and helpful, we disagree. But it's not my intention to hurt you or anyone else by saying so.

You'll forgive me if I find this a little bit insulting. I'm not triggered by someone making derrogatory remarks toward nb folk. I am, however, more than a little concerned that someone I follow seems to believe a man spouting this abuse warrants more sympathy than the people...

...he's hurting here. I of course can understand he is most likely in pain and feels isolated. But I still feel more sympathy for the people, both binary trans and nb, who have to see this stuff and are often terrified to engage with irl LGBTQ+ spaces because they feel they'll...