I don't necessarily think of hatred of men or negativity about masculinity as 'a problem' on a societal level, but I do think it's a fairly common struggle for trans men. https://twitter.com/KlNGSNAKES/status/1296104356144648192 …
Trans men get squeezed on both sides, in other words. When a cis man tries to be 'one of the good ones' he's maybe giving up some miniscule portion of his social capital, if that. Trans men often try harder to be "one of the good ones," and start from a position of precarity.