Respecting your pain, but as someone who cares, I think you're making a mistake, now. People didn't know the truth, they were transphobes. If you even know the truth now you were one of a tiny percentage of people whose dysphoria was misdiagnosed or resisted treatment.
I don't know if its come up in our conversations before, but if there's been a treatment for GD that didn't involve transitioning I would have preferred it. There isn't. Anyone who pretends their is is equivalent to someone who believes in homeopathy, as far as the science goes.