I wasn’t officially GC but had a lot of GC thinking pre-transition. Changing was about giving myself permission to transition rather than being angry jealous of trans people and thinking of myself as superior for “accepting” a “reality” that made me miserable and had no point.
There was also a very kind person- @Martiabernathey- who had patience with some of my GC infected questions. Talking to a smart, patient person who could give real answers to skeptical questions and wasn’t just yelling at me for my ignorance was huge.
