Well, I need you to tell me what you think “a real problem” is. There are a lot of completely false statistics that just get thrown out and the number of children actually sex trafficked is far smaller than all of those organs would have you think. 1
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Replying to @mistressmatisse @e_urq
That’s not to say that we shouldn’t be alert to protect children from exploitation, because we should. But I don’t know of anything that you would need to *read* especially to be on the lookout for that? Let’s ask
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Replying to @mistressmatisse @e_urq
The problem is that under federal law, ANY sex work by a legal minor is considered "sex trafficking", even when (as in 90% of the cases) there is no "trafficker". The great majority of underage sex workers do it as a survival tool to survive on the street, because the great...
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...majority are homeless runaways or throwaways. Most of these kids would be happy to leave sex work if their needs were taken care of by supportive foster parents. Unfortunately, the foster care system is by an large a shitshow, and foster parents who are both financially...
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...and emotionally supportive are a small minority. The "authorities" know how bad the system is, but their jobs depend on hiding & denying it. So when a foster kid who's being maltreated, used as a servant, repressed by Christian "spare the rod" fetishists, or even sexually...
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...abused says "fuck this, I know how to make it on the street" runs back to that rather than endure the abuse, both the state and the abusive foster parents are highly motivated to blame imaginary "pimps" for abducting the kid again, when in reality she's doing what she needs...
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...to survive in the way she learned after running away from her birth parents. "Lists" like this are especially vile because they encourage foster parents to engage in *exactly* the kind of snooping, repression and social control that is most likely to drive an independent...
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...teenager back to the street. My advice to foster parents who really, truly want to help is to ignore this BS. Respect this young person you've volunteered to help; remember that they're a young adult, not a "child", and has probably lived on their own for at least some...
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...period of time. You can't put them back in the nursery, or monitor their every move, or "cure" their queerness (the majority of underage sex workers are LGBT), or spout this "tough love" BS, or they will bolt. Support them, talk to them, trust them to the extent...
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...possible and practical, let them know they can be honest with you, and support them. And then hope for the best.
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That what we’ve done with our kid (an older teen who hasn’t done sex work as far as we know). But it would be nice if there were more resources that resonated with our approach of not having hard rules and prioritizing communication and connection.
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Sex positivity and foster care are such different worlds. We get trainings that tell us to have rules against any pornography in the house or the like... but at the same time we have a girl crazy teen who needs a lot of help with forming healthy relationships.
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Replying to @e_urq @Maggie_McNeill
I hear you, and if I had resources for you, I’d give them to you. But I don’t know if anything particular to your situation. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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