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He/Him. Trans Journo. Views expressed are representative of that Dunkin Donuts I worked in one summer.

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    1. Mistress Matisse‏ @mistressmatisse 31 Jan 2019
      Replying to @e_urq

      Well, I need you to tell me what you think “a real problem” is. There are a lot of completely false statistics that just get thrown out and the number of children actually sex trafficked is far smaller than all of those organs would have you think. 1

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    2. Mistress Matisse‏ @mistressmatisse 31 Jan 2019
      Replying to @mistressmatisse @e_urq

      That’s not to say that we shouldn’t be alert to protect children from exploitation, because we should. But I don’t know of anything that you would need to *read* especially to be on the lookout for that? Let’s ask @Maggie_McNeill ?

      1 reply 0 retweets 8 likes
    3. Maggie McNeill‏ @Maggie_McNeill 31 Jan 2019
      Replying to @mistressmatisse @e_urq

      The problem is that under federal law, ANY sex work by a legal minor is considered "sex trafficking", even when (as in 90% of the cases) there is no "trafficker". The great majority of underage sex workers do it as a survival tool to survive on the street, because the great...

      1 reply 7 retweets 33 likes
    4. Maggie McNeill‏ @Maggie_McNeill 31 Jan 2019
      Replying to @Maggie_McNeill @mistressmatisse @e_urq

      ...majority are homeless runaways or throwaways. Most of these kids would be happy to leave sex work if their needs were taken care of by supportive foster parents. Unfortunately, the foster care system is by an large a shitshow, and foster parents who are both financially...

      2 replies 2 retweets 20 likes
    5. Maggie McNeill‏ @Maggie_McNeill 31 Jan 2019
      Replying to @Maggie_McNeill @mistressmatisse @e_urq

      ...and emotionally supportive are a small minority. The "authorities" know how bad the system is, but their jobs depend on hiding & denying it. So when a foster kid who's being maltreated, used as a servant, repressed by Christian "spare the rod" fetishists, or even sexually...

      1 reply 2 retweets 16 likes
    6. Maggie McNeill‏ @Maggie_McNeill 31 Jan 2019
      Replying to @Maggie_McNeill @mistressmatisse @e_urq

      ...abused says "fuck this, I know how to make it on the street" runs back to that rather than endure the abuse, both the state and the abusive foster parents are highly motivated to blame imaginary "pimps" for abducting the kid again, when in reality she's doing what she needs...

      1 reply 2 retweets 18 likes
    7. Maggie McNeill‏ @Maggie_McNeill 31 Jan 2019
      Replying to @Maggie_McNeill @mistressmatisse @e_urq

      ...to survive in the way she learned after running away from her birth parents. "Lists" like this are especially vile because they encourage foster parents to engage in *exactly* the kind of snooping, repression and social control that is most likely to drive an independent...

      1 reply 3 retweets 17 likes
    8. Maggie McNeill‏ @Maggie_McNeill 31 Jan 2019
      Replying to @Maggie_McNeill @mistressmatisse @e_urq

      ...teenager back to the street. My advice to foster parents who really, truly want to help is to ignore this BS. Respect this young person you've volunteered to help; remember that they're a young adult, not a "child", and has probably lived on their own for at least some...

      1 reply 2 retweets 15 likes
    9. Maggie McNeill‏ @Maggie_McNeill 31 Jan 2019
      Replying to @Maggie_McNeill @mistressmatisse @e_urq

      ...period of time. You can't put them back in the nursery, or monitor their every move, or "cure" their queerness (the majority of underage sex workers are LGBT), or spout this "tough love" BS, or they will bolt. Support them, talk to them, trust them to the extent...

      1 reply 2 retweets 14 likes
    10. Maggie McNeill‏ @Maggie_McNeill 31 Jan 2019
      Replying to @Maggie_McNeill @mistressmatisse @e_urq

      ...possible and practical, let them know they can be honest with you, and support them. And then hope for the best.

      2 replies 2 retweets 13 likes
      Evan Urquhart‏ @e_urq 31 Jan 2019
      Replying to @Maggie_McNeill @mistressmatisse

      That what we’ve done with our kid (an older teen who hasn’t done sex work as far as we know). But it would be nice if there were more resources that resonated with our approach of not having hard rules and prioritizing communication and connection.

      6:27 PM - 31 Jan 2019
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        2. Evan Urquhart‏ @e_urq 31 Jan 2019
          Replying to @e_urq @Maggie_McNeill @mistressmatisse

          Sex positivity and foster care are such different worlds. We get trainings that tell us to have rules against any pornography in the house or the like... but at the same time we have a girl crazy teen who needs a lot of help with forming healthy relationships.

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        3. Mistress Matisse‏ @mistressmatisse 31 Jan 2019
          Replying to @e_urq @Maggie_McNeill

          I hear you, and if I had resources for you, I’d give them to you. But I don’t know if anything particular to your situation. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

          0 replies 0 retweets 2 likes
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