hi gents, yeah, if you're good pals with some ladies in your life, especially coworkers, and have a relationship where you think you're okay exchanging hugs, maybe don't follow the hug up with "don't sue me for sexual harassment, okay?" and laughter?
maybe instead you check in with these ladies you care about and make sure they're cool with whatever it is you're doing and be super open to the idea that maybe they aren't.