Dad during my childhood: "why are always playful and talkative? Can you like, be quiet for a minute" Dad these days: "why are you so quiet?"
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Oh man, same. My mom recently told me, “You know what your problem is? You get too excited about things.” Meanwhile, all my friends and officemates think I’m too reserved and afraid to Be Myself. I really don’t know what to think anymore. SIGH
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here's an idea: relax the belief that other ppls perception of you matters more than what naturally flows from you when you feel safe & unjudged. tune in to those moments, & allow yourself to expand into that being. taking the judgments of others too seriously limits our thriving
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and remember that at the end of the day, people's judgments are only a reflection of their inner perceptions anyway. nothing to do with you.
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Thanks~ I'm starting to open up these days.
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guess we're all personality-less hoes in this house tonight
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No girl I won't let you disrespect your opinionated, witty ass like that.
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"wow you're so mature for your age!" "thanks, it's the trauma"
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AUWJAJAJAH THANKS ITS THE TRAUMA AMAZINGGGGG
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Tags can be very damaging. Even the «good» ones. I was «the independent one», never learnt how to ask for help. It stressed me tons to have to do all on my own
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Quiet, Mature, independant and also got called a "Lone Wolf"because of this, at about the age of 10 or 11. Wondered why I never had any real friends???
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To me it sounds like "thanks for being passive and having self esteem too low to have boundaries." At least that was my experience.
ধন্যবাদ। আপনার সময়রেখাকে আরো ভালো করে তুলতে টুইটার এটিকে ব্যবহার করবে। পূর্বাবস্থায়পূর্বাবস্থায়
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My mom's go-to praise, when I was in the 6-10 range, was, "you're the good child *because* you don't need attention." The less anyone cared about me, the more I felt like I was Doing Virtue. Fortunately, I have totally shaken any and all after effects of this, and am now normal!!
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টুইটটি অনুপলব্ধ
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A lot of lying, mostly. Also some drinking.
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A lot of drinking too
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i get anxiety attacks from saying hi to people this is the adults' faults
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Literally sweat on first meetings Can't keep up even when I act all I can.
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লোড হতে বেশ কিছুক্ষণ সময় নিচ্ছে।
টুইটার তার ক্ষমতার বাইরে চলে গেছে বা কোনো সাময়িক সমস্যার সম্মুখীন হয়েছে আবার চেষ্টা করুন বা আরও তথ্যের জন্য টুইটারের স্থিতি দেখুন।