People like me, who have trouble initiating contact, are not gonna benefit from "come talk to me if you have problems"
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The people who love me the most usually hop into my discord DMs or try to play games with me to chat or send me shit they know I'd like. In person, that means making food for me
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I agree with the thread's premise: you need to be taken seriously. But I have some friends who know just how to get my mind off things, and they are infinitely more valuable than people who aren't. I heal largely through spending time with people I care about and delicious food
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I am shocked by the responses to this thread, I didn't realize I was doing the exact opposite of what I thought I was doing.
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most people don't, I never hold it against them, they're trying to help
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It depends on the person I think, which is why I hate that every single day someone feels the need to be like "this is the 1 correct way to talk to someone. Everything else is wrong and you're a bad friend"
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I like "oof" and "same" because it specifically implies we're similar and leaves a conversation open to me to respond with "yeah, this resonates with me right now especially because of this going on in my life", versus shutting me down for some future time that might not exist.
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I'm glad to see someone say that - that thread made me feel like a crappy friend, because in text, "oof" and "that's rough" are my most common reactions to friends venting. I mean them as shorthand for "I hear what you're saying and will continue to listen."
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They're kind of the textual version of making a sympathising face and putting down whatever else I may be doing. Also, practically speaking, a signal that yes, I'm online and will respond to your venting.
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Is almost like we're all different people, who react in totally different ways, uh? In any case...pic.twitter.com/CL6pHj806B
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