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Or could say: culture does not insist that people address developmental problems, every narrative of victimization is accepted at face value
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See e.g. sect.2 of
@jonhaidt post: Dependence on Third Parties. A typical developmental problem, but now culture does not allow development. -
The troubling message of Haidt’s post, and the paper discussed, is that this pattern is normalized by the culture, no longer seen as problem
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This is expected behaviour for people with attachment problems, making them highly prone to conflict, especially in close relationships.
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@JonHaidt describes what Bill Eddy (@HighConflict) would describe as the seeking of “negative advocates” http://righteousmind.com/where-microaggressions-really-come-from/ … -
What to think of this guy? He wants to offer corrections. Should we line up in queue at his door, all get corrected? https://twitter.com/azharusman/status/640714243810140160 …
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Example: beating your chest, saying that you are fighting oppression / speaking truth to power. Read a book and find out why this is wrong.
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If you make mistakes showing you don’t have even basic level of experience, I’ll make a point to ignore your opinions.
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You might see that something very important is happening. That is not sufficient reason to call people to sit at your feet for guidance.
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If your training is limited to seminary education, will have limited insight into problems of abuse survivors, including relationship probs.
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Anwer Khan retweeted
Adults who were abused as children may experience some of the following physical & emotional effects pic.twitter.com/wb2aUFbyxO
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Impossible to maintain control of information forever. Eventually people start talking to each other, comparing notes, checking evidence.
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#abusers! It is only a matter of time. pic.twitter.com/K7wHCd3IQ3 -
Here are some links on conscientiousness. Dr. Simon is writing mostly to protect those who score high on this trait. https://www.google.ca/search?q=low+conscientiousness …
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What you need is an efficient way to show that your conscientiousness is not open to exploitation. Just accept the verbal abuse as it comes.
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He notes that this involves repeated exploitation of the trait of conscientiousness. This tells us how to make a quick exit from drama:
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Today Dr. George K. Simon writes about the passing around of blame and responsibility in drama: http://www.manipulative-people.com/the-blame-game-part-2/ …
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This works because your goals are clear and progress is objective and measurable.
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http://www.bmj.com/content/351/bmj.h4023/rapid-responses … All hail the awesome power of the
#internet for advancing#nutrition#science#education pic.twitter.com/mPJ087mjp9
Anwer Khan
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