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    Heads up: we’re resending this one split into two parts because email clients truncated the original one and many people missed the exercises. Thanks for your patience!

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    26. You don’t need to “earn” happiness by suffering. For example, both I and my wife are happy in our current relationship. But her past experiences have been way more positive than mine. I wish someone taught me better when I was younger. </thread>

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  3. prije 7 sati

    25. A fight getting physical is a huge breach of trust and a good reason to end the relationship.

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    24. Gossiping together is good. It means you trust each other.

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    21. Vibe includes a shared sense of humor. If you don’t have much intersection there, it’s gonna be tough. Values include a similar attitude towards money. This doesn’t mean coming from the same economic background — but it means a shared sense of what’s okay to spend on what.

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    20. If one of you needs warmth and physical affection and the other one can’t give or receive it, it’s not gonna work. Sorry.

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    19. Being alone is much better than being in a relationship primarily because you don’t want to be alone again.

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    18. If you only ever talk about plans, something’s amiss. If you’re waiting for a relationship to get better after some arbitrary point (graduation? new job? move?), notice that the target keeps changing and is always just out of reach. We fool ourselves best.

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  11. prije 8 sati

    17. We already have Values and Vibe, so let’s add Vision and make it three Vs. Where do you both see yourselves in ten years? There might be things to figure out (e.g. disagreements on living in the city vs country), but you need to at least be able to have that conversation.

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    16. It’s okay to want to have kids. It’s also okay to not want to have kids. You probably want to discuss this sooner rather than later.

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  13. prije 8 sati

    15. The media portrayal of happy relationships really screws with our minds. For example, you don’t have to take every vacation together! It’s okay to take a break from each other, explore the world independently, and then share the fun things you found.

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    14. In fights, you need to learn and respect each other’s coping mechanisms. If someone needs to go out and walk a few miles, that’s cool. If the other person wants to crawl in bed and not talk for the rest of the day, that’s cool too. Give each other the space to calm down.

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    13. In a good relationship, there is no shame. You can let out a fart if you want. But there is also a personal space. Neither of you has to share everything.

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    12. You’re going to hate each other’s guts sometimes. But in a loving way.

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    11. You’re aligned on Vibe when both talking and sitting in silence feels good. You’re aligned on Values when you both agree what “good” means in life. Vibe is micro. Values is macro.

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    10. Soulmates are bullshit. They’re not “the one”. But this doesn’t mean you can get along with anyone. You need alignment on two things: Values and Vibe.

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    9. It there’s a nagging feeling that something is wrong, something is wrong.

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    8. You’ll learn more about your relationship in two weeks after moving in together than during two years before that. Delaying that is an irresponsible waste of time for both of you.

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  21. prije 9 sati

    7. Where there is pity or envy, there cannot be respect. Without respect, there is no friendship. Without friendship, there is no love.

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