Yeah I'm useless. There's a reason I barely ever date. Well there are many reasons but this one is in the top three
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Replying to @DRMacIver @Hillelogram
Well, I’m married now, but there’s probably a reason (well, many reasons maybe) that I was 39 when it happened.
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Replying to @dabeaz @Hillelogram
Yeah I take comfort in the fact that many people who are as bad at this as I am do seem to eventually make it work
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Replying to @DRMacIver @Hillelogram
One thing I learned: people on dating sites are actually there to date people. Unlike people, say, in a music or art class where they may or may not be flirting with you--and more likely not.
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Replying to @dabeaz @Hillelogram
Unfortunately I find online dating almost unbearably depressing
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Replying to @DRMacIver @Hillelogram
I would only add.... it's perhaps not unlike every other form of dating then ;-).
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Replying to @dabeaz @Hillelogram
No the numbers game is very different. Also most of the depressing part is before the actual date
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I found the most depressing thing about dating is guys looking for one night stands but lying about it.
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I had a fair number of problems with people thinking I “wasn’t interested” because I wanted to take it slow. Yeah. Those “guys” suck.
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It's the old 'I'll call you' cliche I kicked myself for not seeing coming. Have you tried saying straight you're interested but want to take it slow? As the thread started, being explicit is a good thing.
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Oh sure. But it was a learning process and I spent a lot of time being clueless about a lot of things.
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I can relate to that.
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