This shit annoys me. It’s like a singer. Yes, of COURSE ppl want you do to fancy runs and shit. AFTER you learn to sing on pitch and stay in the key when you run. If you can’t do that, stick to the simple shit til you can. https://twitter.com/givethnofucketh/status/996384088729808897 …
And yes, not understanding the simple idea that you should make sure you’re getting the basics right before you get fancy IS the patriarchy. Thinking you get to “sweep a woman off her feet” if you haven’t yet proven you can lift her two inches off the grown IS the patriarchy.