Sigh. I really enjoy Culture Kings podcast but EYE would not be caught out here having one of those "who has it worse? White women or black men??" type conversations without a woman in the discussion.
But anyway when it comes to comparing oppressions, I think of it like there are a lot of holes out there dug for all of us to fall into. Maybe there are 50 holes for me, 40 for you, but if all of yours are dug in places where you always go, and mine are in places I never go...