Sigh. This is the one and only time I have agreed with the Hypothetical Man in one of these but like... I would 100% say “you can come” or some version thereof bc I don’t want to put any pressure on you! Come through if you want, I’d love to see you, but no pressure.https://twitter.com/nuuyawkerr/status/977006125278224384 …
And yes, me being me, I would probably say all of those words, but if Hypothetical Man shortens that you “come through if you want,” I think “I want to see you but no pressure” is as valid an inference as “I don’t really want you to come but I shall SUFFER through it if you must”