Bottom line: “black nerds” who still hold a grudge against black people are blaming black people for the fact that children are mean and will seize on any difference whatsoever to be cruel to each other and zero in on whatever cruelty gets the biggest reaction.
And the fact that the nerds you met in college treated you nicer wasn’t bc they were rainbow coalition (or just white in which case my condolences), it was because they were ALSO NERDS, lol. And, again, not 14.