I do think a lot of the #NeverTrump "Republicans" are annoyed that they are Democrats now, but as Democrats they are forced to be in coalition with---and so accommodate the policy priorities of---minorities, feminists, queer people, social progressives, etc.
But! That's the price of decency in 2018! Either you join the party that will ultimately have to make meaningful concessions to the "black identity extremists" who don't want our kids to be shot dead in the streets by cops, or you stay with the white identity extremists aka Nazis