If you so mad about people being sensitive stop caring if I “shame” you by calling your hate hate. I got plenty of relatives that “love” me and still behave out of hate towards me. We all do. Welcome to being queer in 2018, lol.
And like I said! If y’all will just stay quiet about your hate, no one will know about it, so no one can shame you! Good truce, right? No shame for you, and we don’t have to deal with your hate all the time. Honestly that sounds like a great compromise to me.