It is crazy how my upbringing was SO black and SO white-adjacent at the same time. My daddy worked at a church and my mama went to schools across the state doing a one woman show about Sojourner Truth and African diaspora folktales with percussion backup.
But then I went to an INCREDIBLY MEGA-WHITE Christian school affiliated with a now-Trump-supporting church (and even at the time, it was Southern Baptist, you know, the denomination that was invented to deny that black folks could even be Christian).
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And my mom's day job involved a LOT of flattering the egos of rich old whites on local cable in a super republican town (or a town run by super white republicans anyway).
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Being back home I'm just remembering how hybridized my entire life was until age 15 or 16 when I started spending more time around my white peer group. And frankly how uncomfortable it was to have to assimilate into a group of very well-intentioned, very racist white folks.
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And I want to say "at least it gave me so many opportunities!" But tbh, I could have gone to a really good public school magnet program in the arts OR for academics and gotten the same opportunities.
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(And I would have gotten into both/either bc I was a really smart kid, lol. *tosses hair*.) I don't regret it bc I can't imagine being a different person... but if I have kids I will think VERY seriously about the advantages vs disadvantages of PWI education esp at a young age.
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