When are people going to realize that this Horrible PC Moment consists SOLELY of people who have been talked about forever talking back? Literally that's it. When you talk about us, we talk back. And all the cultural change you're so terrified of comes from that.
"oh no, it's like you can't say ANYTHING now." Oh, you can say it. It's just that the person you were talking about heard you and has something to say too.