Okay so more Cat Person thoughts: men are TOTALLY also allowed to think "oh hm I maybe want to have sex with this person" and then later discover "oh no, no I do not want to have sex with this person" and may similarly feel like they HAVE to anyway.
but I think that coercion is much less likely to come from women and much more likely to come from the ghosts of other men. Because all Real Men always want to fuck absolutely any woman (and only women) all the time no matter what unless she is -insert desexualized category here-