Okay shit one serious rebuke to the Dudes Who Have Feelings About Cat Person: surely you noticed that on multiple occasions she is afraid for her life. Dimly afraid, but afraid. And yet you expect emotional honesty from this woman. Really?
I... you gotta clarify for me what you mean by "more responsible" bc from where I'm standing men are more responsible. For the patriarchy, for fucking up (in) cishet relationships, etc., etc., etc.