Okay shit one serious rebuke to the Dudes Who Have Feelings About Cat Person: surely you noticed that on multiple occasions she is afraid for her life. Dimly afraid, but afraid. And yet you expect emotional honesty from this woman. Really?
Do you want us to have more empathy with guys who don't know how to let a woman down easy? With men's anxiety about rejecting people? Then let's talk about anxiety, let's not talk about men. And let's not talk about it when the discussion of the moment is about patriarchy.