Okay shit one serious rebuke to the Dudes Who Have Feelings About Cat Person: surely you noticed that on multiple occasions she is afraid for her life. Dimly afraid, but afraid. And yet you expect emotional honesty from this woman. Really?
Like do we see what a fucking catch 22 that is? Side A: Hey, be honest with men, just tell them how you feel. Side B: If you are honest with me I will start with violent words and I might get to violent acts.
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And then all the Side A dudes are like "yeah but I would NEVER" aha! But you benefit from the fact that some guys do. And that's a really ugly, hateful thing to think about but I PROMISE you you have at MINIMUM gotten a woman's emotional labor bc of that conditioned fear.
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and she might not even be scared of you! Or have ever BEEN scared of you! but our brains learn general rules and when a general rule is lodged in your brain far enough back there, it will activate even in places where it has no business operating according to your conscious mind.
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