Okay, this is a nuclear hot take and it might be a long rant so bear with me: Apparently the Toronto van attacker identified as incel. I think we have to be very, very careful how we react to this.
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I was not sexually active in my 20s (I'm not much more now) but I had therapists who helped me realize this wasn't a defect, it was just my reality.
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But I still cringe when people talk about male terrorists in terms of "they just need to get laid" or joke about MRAs by saying "they've clearly never had sex."
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I'm not saying "don't be mean to incels because they're really nice people." Many are clearly jerks. What I'm saying is quit placing people's value on their sex lives or lack thereof.
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