But not everything fits together, and not everything fits completely together... And not everyone has to agree. But every one should be able to enjoy the experience of finding where they cohere... to enjoy the complimentarianism of finding where things fit.
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I kink shame the hell out of people who like mint with chocolate. That is a taste cohesion that doesn't cohere with me. And it doesn't have to. What flavors consenting adults mix in their own homes is no business of mine.
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Reminds me of another thing I enjoy... Over analogizing... The act of trying to connect analogous things to the point where it devalues the original analogy. It's over-cohesion... It happens in relationships regularly. You don't have to connect on every single facet...
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It's a fun exercise to demonstrate the dangers of doing that with real things... Things that are "real" to you. The danger of over-cohesion in life is the de-valuing of facets of your identity that don't cohere...
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#GymThoughts thread. My wife doesn't come to the gym with me. That's not a facet on which we cohere. There are lots of facets we don't cohere, but we cohere on the facet that finds not having to cohere on every facet to be important...1 reply 0 retweets 1 likeShow this thread -
I guess that brings me to "what does Jack want?" Yeezus. Cohesion. Across more facets of myself. It's part of why I enjoy the polyamorous relationship I'm blessed with. I don't have to disenfranchise elements of myself to cohere a single shared view of romantic relationships.
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Not just romantic cohesion either... In fact, that's pretty far down the rank order. I have a lot of stories about crazy/dumb things I've done in my life. But I've done almost all of them alone. I'm tired of playing by myself. I want people to play with...
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Not people to outline rules for me to follow. Those are a dime a dozen... I want people who can PLAY.
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I want to play with the rules, explore and uncover every game within the rules. I want to embody them, disembody from them, take them to their logical ends, take them to illogical ends, explore every possible strategy within the rules and explore strategies that break them.
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And I want to never be beholden to the rules... To become beholden is the death of play. To be beholden to one set of rules, and to be forced to remain within that single set is to turn play into ritual; to define a process. My heart breaks to think of it.
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