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The way women most often find relief from problems is to talk about them to someone else. Not to solve them, not for someone else to give their feedback To literally whine. Woe is me. I had such a shitty day. I MUST talk about it This is how we emotionally heal. By unloading

We could probably take a leaf from the masc archetype here. To heal by addressing the problem & solving it, rather than by ruminating & confirming the legitimacy of our (probably over-the-top) emotional-response by replaying the situation over and over

We don't get the option of whining