I don’t know a trans man who has never heard the “can’t you just be a masculine woman?” line. we hear that shit all the time. “butch women exist!” and “are you sure you’re not just a lesbian?” regardless of our attraction. we’re really not pushed into transition.
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the amount of trans men ive met who first went through being nonbinary bc they werent given the opportunity/encouraged to express themselves as being a man is astounding and what happens is that we stick w just being a gnc person until we realize Oh This Isn't Quite Right
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not anything wrong w being nb, I've just seen that a whole lot and I also see a buncha formerly binary trans men going between nb and man I think bc hrt/ wanting to be a more masculine person became binary because otherwise you're just "faking"
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It's always confused me as well. I spent three years trying to be a Butch woman, and that made me even more miserable because even though I was presenting more masculine, I was still being seen as a woman which was the whole heckin problem.
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Same and I spent 22 years as a butch woman. I tried so hard, turns out I'm not any type of woman.
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The idea that trans people need to just “try and be gender nonconforming” first is so bullshit. It assumes that we don’t know who and what we are, and that we just have to keep trying to be cis. Its reeeaaal close to the “you haven’t met the right woman/man yet” advice
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Legit the day I came out to my friend group, one of them pulled me aside to ask why I had to be "anti-feminist about it" and went on a long spiel that I'm sure he thought was inspirational about how strong a woman I am. People really treat us as if we don't know ourselves.
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It took me 6 years to access HRT after I decided I wanted it. That's a lot of time to be able to just drop the whole thing and go to being gnc if I were a woman after all. And that isn't even the time spent deciding whether transition was right for me because I (cont)
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First came across terf bs about transmasc people. All the lies about the medical effects and it scared me away from pursuing transition at first
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it’s wonderful having that space to explore it but damn i’m tired of being forced into exploring it
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