Writer.
DOTA, esports, art.
She/they(?)
Though I may never meet you, laugh with you, cry with you or kiss you, I love you. With all my heart, I love you.
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We telling esports sexual harassment stories? TI7 afterparty. One drunk caster slurring at me and literally wouldn't let go of my hand, I had to wrench it off him with all my strength. Another person aggressively propositioned me for sex, even started undressing.
A new friend I'd made thankfully noticed the latter situation and came and got me out of that situation because FUCK was I uncomfortable. People talk about the fight or flight response. For some reason nobody talks about the fucking deer in the headlight response.
I don't think anyone could accuse me of not being an assertive person. But I freeze like a fucking prey animal in those situations, and the shame that brings on afterwards is massive. Please, if you see these situations be like my one friend. "Hey can I talk to you for a sec?"
Also, you can turn these situations around in a lighthearted way. It's ok to say "Whoa haha, hey buddy why don't we let the nice lady have her hand back" to your drunk as fuck friend. It's not like he'll remember anyway. Intervene.
Ah yes, the year I pulled away a very distressed looking girl from a dude who was aggressively touching her at the afterparty, to dance with me, and the dude running shoved me from behind, called me a bitch, and when his friends came to get him they told me to mind my business.
Are you fucking serious? 
Wonder if it was the same dude.
My view as an outsider, I've always seen eSports as this underdog thing, so I've always wondered if people can remain humble and human about working in it, that was the awe that drew me towards it, but the past few years, I've been seen what a shit show it can be.People in power
Please take care :)
Hey, I’m sorry for what you have been through. If you are comfortable enough to share the name of the abuser, please do. This sort of behaviors is disgusting.
I'm thinking it over. I don't know if I am comfortable, I think all it could end with is hundreds of their fans harassing me and honestly, I'm tired 
Did u report that caster?? Does he still do casting??
Report him to who? The DOTA police?
Yeah he still does casting, more popular than ever. Nobody would care. I just privately urge other girls to stay away from him if I know they'll be around where he is. That's how we've been handling things for years.
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